Result Of Unrealistic Expectations Of Parents From Their Children
Parents do a lot for their children and splurge their whole lives working hard to provide a luxurious lifestyle to their children but as children start growing up they start expecting different things from them, the expectation commences from the child’s first step as every parent wants their child to walk as soon as possible, when the child starts going to school, they want him or her to get good marks and grades, at home they want them to be obedient and pragmatic. As the child grows, expectations grow as well. Parents nowadays want their children to be perfect. If they have a daughter, she should be good looking, have a lean body, fair skin tone, must know how to cook, splendid in studies and be very respectful whereas boy should be hardworking, obedient, magnificent in sports, must earn well and whatnot. Parents nowadays have forgotten the concept of unconditional love and how important it is for a child’s growth. Sometimes child only wants unconditional love from parents without being perfect at everything. No parent is perfect so no child can be perfect as well. Parents should start loving their children without conditions as it aids to boost their confidence and make them feel accepted and loved instead of making them unceasingly do things they want them to do.